The Modern Housewife

It's not you, it's me...

2010-10-13T12:34:00.000-05:00

I've had this rolling around in my head for the last several weeks, ok... months.

Perhaps I'm just too busy living my life to worry about writing about it. Looking at my feed reader now over 1,000 posts that I haven't read, I'm just not that into it. It's not that I don't care, it's just I'm having a hard time making time. And me? Truth be told, what I have to say isn't really that interesting.

Busy, yes. But interesting? Not for many, and those of you that know me on facebook and get the info anyway.

So I guess this is good bye. At least for now.

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All I want for Christmas...

2010-09-29T16:32:00.000-05:00

Maybe it's just me... I don't have good luck with can openers. In the last 14 years, I've had nearly a dozen of them - every size and shape - and I can't find one I like or that works for more than six months.

The other day, I was driven to desperate measures:

I went old school on the can of beans. All I wanted to make was a pot of chili for the crockpot.

Any suggestions?

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Thursday...

2010-09-23T15:02:00.000-05:00

Why is it you can never find the right box when you need it?

This went in the mail earlier this week:

A childhood friend and his wife lost their baby at 27 weeks. This is the second son they've named and buried. Seeing a picture of an 18" casket about did me in. Another friend lost her 20 year old son to suicide a few months back. As a parent it is hard not to internalize 'what it if were me'.

Both are too far to deliver a meal or a shoulder to cry on. It is hard to know what to do when tragedy strikes. Hard to know what to say. But still wanting to do something, I sent a care package of something I hope will bring some small measure of comfort.

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On the upside - things have been a bit busy around here. I never thought I'd be one of those moms - running three directions at the same time, but here I am. Tonight we have:

3:45 - 4:30 - Oldest has Math Club at school

4 - 5 Youngest has dance

6 - 7 Oldest had dance

6 - 7 Youngest has Soccer (just a few more weeks!)

6:20 - 7:20 - The Boy has hockey.

Thursday has therefore been dubbed "Crock Pot Night". While the kids were eating breakfast, I was busy browning meat for chili. Meat, seasoning, tomatoes both as sauce and diced, and a couple cans of beans - though by no means gourmet, it is something hot and ready from 5 - 8.

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Finally - after six long years of being home, I am now employed as a substitute teacher! Whoot!

The one where they take our parenting license away

2010-09-10T10:50:00.004-05:00

This summer, we took our kids on vacation. From the left, chairs three and four:
Something to note, my six year old is 52" tall. There was only one ride she couldn't go on. I bet she's the required 54" by next summer.

Until then, the memories of the Giant Barn Swing will have to sustain.

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I never understood as a kid how my mom could sit on the sidelines and watch us. Really, I mean, there's fun to be had! How can you sit? Why don't you want to go?!?

Now I get it. I am good for 4 or 5 coasters, then I'm fine to watch.

There's something to be said for being able to send your kids on a ride and just watch. Don't worry, Mom, we watched very carefully.

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Pink and Brown Butterflies

2010-09-07T10:35:00.004-05:00

One of the hockey moms is expecting #3. After two boys, she is having a girl. I asked her what the plan was for her nursery and she replied "pink and brown with butterflies." I dug through my stash and came up with this:

She loved it!

I love it when a plan comes together. I know the back isn't quite centered, but it's done.

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Lovely

2010-09-02T10:48:00.006-05:00

When my oldest was in second grade, my mother donated her hair to Locks of Love. So inspired, my seven year old daughter decided to do the same.

Three years later, she finally had enough to donate.

Who is this grown up girl of mine?!?

Though not totally unplanned, one day she looked at me and said, "If I cut the ten inches off, what will be left?" I got a ruler out and showed her. Thirty minutes later we were getting it cut. They did a fantastic job and ended up taking off nearly 12 inches.

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For what it's worth, she now has the bracing off her teeth from the trampoline incident. She was a champ while they were grinding it off. The dentist said he wishes all his patients were so... patient. The oral surgeon gives her a 50% chance of keeping the tooth for the long haul. The bills are still coming in, though.

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August 17th was a great day

2010-08-31T13:54:00.003-05:00

Back to school! First, third and fifth grade.

In case you're wondering, I've been having some internet/gmail issues, hence the slack posting. Not like I was ever really on top if it, but...

Hope you are all doing well out there.

Promises, Promises

2010-08-16T13:56:00.003-05:00

Here I sit, making another list.

Things I didn't get done this summer and I probably coulda/woulda/shoulda:
Clean out the cabinets
Sort last year's school papers
Paint the last bedroom
Finish sorting the basement
Go through the Miscellaneous boxes in the basement
Have the kids read more
Re-seal the granite countertops
Sort the kids' art supplies
Make a new duvet cover/curtains for my bedroom
New quilt for my Oldest Daughter
Clean out my closet
Clean out the kids' closets.
Get rid of the clothes that don't fit.

Tomorrow is the first day of school, with that, summer is over no matter what the calendar says. I guess that throws this list to "What I do all day with the kids gone since I don't have a 'job'".

When Mother Nature Interferes

2010-08-12T14:30:00.002-05:00

The kids came home yesterday. What should have been a 3 1/2 hour journey was closer to 6. Both the highway and interstate were closed due to flooding. My peeps. I missed them so. Home safe and sound, we offered parents refuge from the rain that is supposed to happen the next three days. Undeterred, they headed home.

At some point, they'll have to come home

2010-08-09T10:02:00.004-05:00

With summer in full swing and the days until school starts dwindling, it's been a busy couple of weeks around Cow Town.

In the last two weeks, I have spent precious few nights in my own bed. Two weeks ago, we took the kids to Hill Billy Central for vacation. At least that's what I call it - you might know it better as Branson. The kids had a great time at the amusement park, water park, and corresponding activities. It's not that I didn't have a good time, it's just this time it was about the kids. We headed home on a Friday to regroup, do laundry, and re-pack. A week ago today, I made the three and a half hour trip to my parents. The Suburban loaded with three excited children, I was taking them for their week-long odyssey of fun at their grandparents. I spent the night and headed home Tuesday.

Fortunately, the laundry was done as I started packing again. This time - for me. Hubs and I took off early Wednesday morning headed West.

What is it that seems almost magical about heading West?

As the miles clicked by, I tried to rest, to recapture some of the lost sleep from the week before, but I found myself staring out the window watching the scenery slowly change. Yes, slowly, as Kansas seems to stretch forever. Once we entered Colorado, the corn and bean fields made way for grazing fields. Less tilled and slightly more wild, I kept scanning the horizon for the mountains. As long a Kansas seemed, Colorado that much more as the anticipation grew. At some point, I did fall asleep. It wasn't more than 30 minutes (though my husband claims much longer), but it was enough. As I rubbed the sleep from my eyes, my husband motioned forward and told me to look ahead. Finally. The Rocky Mountains. We kept driving. Though Denver, along I-70, twisting and turning, up the side of the mountains until we reached our final destination: Vail.

Yesterday it took ten and a half hours to make it home. I didn't drive a mile. Though I don't mind driving, we make much better time when my husband does.

At some point this week, the kids will come home. Though I miss them, I do enjoy the time today to get caught back up with things before they storm the castle.

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With the days of summer winding down, what are you most looking forward to about Fall?

Another Hot Saturday Night

2010-07-24T22:17:00.003-05:00

It's 10:20 and I'm in bed. Catching up on my computer time, I'm listening to David Gray on Live from the Artist's Den on PBS.

Yes. Public Television.

I may have mentioned a time or two that we don't have cable, direct tv, dish, DVR, or any channels that can't be picked up on an HD Antenna.

Yes. Antenna.

This afternoon I tidied the bedroom to Antiques Roadshow. Later, I folded laundry to The Lawrence Welk Show. That took me back to sitting on my Great Grandmother's floor, eating an ice cream sandwich and drinking a strawberry or grape pop. Or sometimes, if the fates were with us - a Dr Pepper.

When we were younger, we'd go play in the basement, careful of her wintered plants, crank up the gramophone, and jump on the spare bed. As we grew, we'd greet her with a hug and a kiss, inspect her insignificant flaws in her thread crochet, and then ask if we could change the channel. Mom would sometimes object, but Gram over-rode those objections and we'd find ourselves watching MTV - something it seemed that everyone but us had. Yes, country living even then.

There were three things I could always count on when we visited Gram: syrupy sweet pop, ice cream sandwiches, and Lawrence Welk.

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What to do today...

2010-07-19T08:34:00.003-05:00

The older two are at church day camp this week. Gone from 8 to 3, they leave the youngest at a bit of a loss. Last night at bedtime, she informed me that I need to wake her up so she can tell them goodbye. Even though I knew what would happen, I still woke her up.

I woke her up and carried her downstairs while she asked me how long they'd be gone. Hours or minutes? How long Momma? How long? She solemly hugged them each goodbye and then raised her arms to be held. With big tears, she stood at the door waving as they left.

The tears left as quickly as they came. She's 'recovering' now on the couch, able to watch whatever she wants while I figure out the plan for the day. It won't be as willy-nilly as the rest of the week as we have an oral surgeon appointment for the oldest in the morning and a regular dental appointment for the rest of us this afternoon.

What to do, oh what to do.

There's laundry to be done, drawers to be cleaned out, and toilets to be scrubbed. There's also a baby blanket to be made and curtains to be figured out for the kitchen.

Sew or clean...

Hmm...

Summer Living

2010-07-14T17:21:00.005-05:00

I'm as tan, blonde, and thin as I've ever been. Not trying to gloat, but...

For me losing weight, though not easy, isn't the hard part. Maintaining it is. I promised myself once I got back to 175, I'd keep myself in the 170's. Right now I'm 184.

What does that mean?

It means I need to get back to the 80/20 principle. Do good 80% of the time, and the other 20% will work itself out. I found that for the first couple weeks I could do well Monday through Friday and then have a little slack Saturday and Sunday. (Or use Sunday as my "reboot" day - with Friday and Saturday as my slack days.)

For the last several weeks, I found that I can barely eke out one good day, let alone five. It's not that I can't, I just choose not to. And by choose, I mean I grab a bag of chips versus nuts/cheese/veggies. Pizza instead of a salad with a little pepperoni and mozzarella cheese. Crispy tacos instead of a taco salad (no shell). Two bowls of cereal instead of two eggs.

I'm owning these choices.

But it has. to. stop.

Now.

As of today, I've had three good days. With the stress of the dentist/oral surgeon Monday, freakishly following my oldest on Tuesday, and now today - I've strung together three good days.

Three.

I promised myself once the kids are back in school I'd kick the workout routine in gear. I found that once I dropped the weight, 6 - 8 miles wasn't a problem. I'd like to get back there again.

For now, I'm following my friend Tree's lead... And taking it one more. Let's call it the 3 x 100 Challenge - three exercises, adding one more each day, until I reach 100. Today: one push up, one sit up, and one burpee. Tomorrow - two of each. And so on. See you on Oct 21st...
Now. To find a race to train for...

Lest we forget - Before:
Let's not go back there again.

Please. I beg you.

2010-07-13T10:22:00.002-05:00

If you do one thing the summer...

Please.

I'm begging you.

Watch your kids when they're on the trampoline.
Accidents happen. Trust me. I know.

We spent a super weekend visiting friends in Minnesota. As we were getting set to leave, Big Girl bonked her knee to her mouth, knocking one of her teeth (adult mind you) out of place. We iced it best we could and got an appointment first thing at the dentist Monday morning.

The dentist quickly referred us to an oral surgeon. He set the tooth to rights and braced it with wire and bonding agent for the next six weeks.

Six weeks. Like a broken arm.
I spent the day yesterday with a shadow. Or a tail. She didn't get much further than five feet from me. I'd leave the room and hear, "mom, where are you?!?" Most of the day was spent on the couch with her.

Today she's off all pain medication and seems to be doing better. She's still pretty much on 'baby food,' but is handling it better than I would.

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Of all the things to miss...

2010-07-01T12:25:00.001-05:00

Having been here just short of a year, I find myself longing for my clothesline.
A year? As of July 16th, we'll have been in Cow Town for a year. Where, exactly, does the time go?

The days go slow, the years go fast

2010-06-30T11:14:00.004-05:00

What greets us when my husband and I slip out on the deck after the kids are in bed: It's quite the life I lead here.

End of the year quilts

2010-06-16T11:06:00.007-05:00

For the end of the school year, I finished three quilts.

For the Kindergarten teacher:
For the second grade teacher:

For the fourth grade teacher:

This one proved a bit more of a challenge, as I gave them a square (rectangle actually) and let them design at will. Some ended up "tall" and others "wide". It was a bit of a challenge, but she really liked the end product! As usual, I didn't have enough backing, so I pieced one together.

I think all the teachers really liked them, so much so I've been trying to think of a way to market these for next year...

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GORP

2010-06-14T14:00:00.005-05:00

It's that time of year again: falling back into the pattern of three meals (plus snacks) to keep three kids running.

One of the kids' favorites is gorp. Those of the camping set may already know what I'm talking about - Good Old Raisins & Peanuts. To many, it is simply trail mix. We took it every time we went camping and it was always a hit. The mingling flavors is something I associate with summer.

The great thing about it, is it can contain just about anything:
cereal - regular or sweetened, whatever you have on hand
crackers - goldfish are great
nuts (peanuts, cashews, walnuts, almonds, etc)
seeds (sunflower!)
dried fruit (raisins, cherries, cranberries, apples, etc)
and maybe even a bit of candy (we prefer M&M's because they don't melt in your hands - or turn your mix into a mess).

It is shelf stable and travels well. It can be as upscale or pedestrian as you like. I also like it because it is something the kids can put together on their own.

Our biggest battle is whose turn it is to decide what goes into it. I try and have several options on hand - and inevitably the m&m's are a big hit and get eaten first. It's great to take to the pool and the kids make a bit deal of letting me know when they are eating something other than the candy!

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What are some of your favorite summer foods?

My how time flies...

2010-06-11T10:29:00.006-05:00

It's been awhile, I know. Things have been a bit hectic and heavy around here.

First off, the kids are out of school and now in summer school! It's not as bad as it sounds - at least for me! We had a week off, it should have been two but had to make up 6 snow days, and back they went. For the week off we hosted a neighborhood boy that had a gap in child care. It was really fun and they were all well behaved. We went to the pool multiple times, painted bird houses, and tye-dyed t-shirts. This week, though, my husband has been dropping them off bright and early at 8 am and I pick them up at noon. It's only for three weeks, and they're doing quite a few fun projects.

Secondly, I made a quilt for each of my kids' teachers - so three if you're keeping track. Hopefully we'll have Internet back at the house soon and I can post pictures. Yes - we're having Internet problems that are keeping me from the rest of the world so I've come to the library to catch up. Even my phone Internet is acting up! You'd think I'd get more done around the house, but there are so many better things to do - like go to the pool!!!

Also, I have come to a realization with someone in my life. This is how it has to be for awhile. I never again want to find myself standing again in a store, mouth hanging open having just been bitched out, swore at, and left. The hits just keep coming and I'm sick of it. How many times can you kick a dog before it flinches every time you walk by? Mad doesn't come close to describe how I'm feeling. Having a relationship that goes from almost daily phone calls to terse texts and knowing that I don't even warrant a phone call is painful. Hurt. Hurt pretty much sums it up. I've been told I just need to "get over it and move on." Easy to say, harder to do. Normally I think I can bounce back pretty quick, but this has cut me to the quick. At some point, the feelings I have will loose intensity and we may be able to at least talk again, but I don't think I'll ever be able to go back to the way things were. I've just been hurt like this one too many times. I know I'm not blameless it this, and have been given plenty of food for introspection.

Finally on the up side, I've managed to maintain my weight pretty well (good?!?). For the first time in more years than I can count, I'm wearing a two piece to the pool. An honest to goodness two piece - no tankini for me - with plenty of (now tanned) tummy showing. And I look so good, I may even post a picture - then again - maybe not!

Happy Friday all!

Memory Quilt

2010-05-20T08:35:00.006-05:00

Made this for a friend, whose nephew was taken too young by cancer:
It was a bit hard, knowing that these shirts and sweatshirts once belonged to a promising young man.

I took care to outline each design, holding the quilt together a bit better than if I'd just stitched in the ditch. The final measurement was 64" x 80".

It was an emotional one to put together, I tell you. But getting a phone call saying it was more she'd dreamed of made it all worth it. I hope it brings the family some peace, if nothing more than to hold.

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Time keeps on slipping... Into the future

2010-05-18T21:13:00.006-05:00

Here I sit, wondering how this happened...
My boy turned eight.

Eight years ago, on Mother's Day we thought our family was complete. (Little did we know we'd have another addition in just two short years, but that's a story for another day.)

Happy Birthday my boy. I love you more than words can say.

Maintenance

2010-05-04T11:54:00.003-05:00

I'm at a point right now I never thought I'd be.

I hit my goal weight a couple weeks ago.

In my wildest dream I never thought I'd get to my goal weight. When I started this journey, I would have been happy to drop 20 pounds or so (get below 200). As it went, the weight came off fast and furious and in about 5 months I lost 45 pounds.

Forty five. Never did I think I'd hit 175 again.

That's what I weighed when I graduated from high school.

Right now my goal is to maintain that within four pounds. That keeps me in the 170's. This morning I woke up and wasn't a bit startled when the scale said 179. Rather than sigh and get dismayed, I knew I'd just have to watch it for a few days while the scale inches back down. It's a balance.

The past couple weeks have been an experiment in 'good' eating days and 'bad' eating days. Like I tell my kids - there are no 'bad' foods - just 'always' foods and 'sometimes' foods. You can always have celery sticks, carrots, apple, etc. You can sometimes have candy.

Not that I've been eating candy or anything. ;)

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I can hear my husband snoring in the other room

2010-05-01T05:52:00.003-05:00

It's early. For me. I've been up since about 3:45 am. The incessant coughing of a five year old will do that. I gave her some medicine about 4:15 and made myself lay back down until 5.

After that? What's the point. If I manage to get back to sleep, it will be painful when the alarm goes off at 7. I'm better off trying to catch a quick nap somewhere in the mad dash that is Saturday.

Today's going to be a busy one:
The boy has a hockey game from 9 - 10,
the Baby has an extra dance class from 11 - 12,
the oldest has softball practice from 11 - 12:30,
the oldest has dance from 1 - 4 (normally 1 - 2)
the oldest has a birthday party at 2 - 4:30.

Right after hockey, my husband and son are going to the Indy car race. That will help - the boy won't be whining about having to be away from home. He'd rather be home that driving his sisters to dance class.

I am compromising with my oldest about the dance class/ birthday party debacle. She received the birthday party invitation over a week before we knew of the extended dance class, so I am having her stay until 3, and then she can catch the tail end of the party. Also, they will be having another extended dance class before the recital.

We should be home around 4:30 or 5. I'm hoping for a quick nap before the sleepover - two 7 year old boys - starts. Oy. Their parents have a party, and I offered - no sense paying a sitter when they have been begging for a sleepover.

The month of May is just plain busy. Fall activities are winding down and spring/summer activities are starting up. Soon enough dance and hockey will be over and we'll be left with softball and baseball. My weekends clear up after the fourth of July, pending we don't have to make up any games due to weather. Right now I have five open weeks at the end of summer before school starts and I'm sure looking forward to it.

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Take your child to work day

2010-04-24T08:57:00.004-05:00

Last Thursday was take your child to work day. My husband took them for the morning, we met for lunch, and I took them for the afternoon.

After finding out what they would be doing, my oldest opted to go back to school.

I wonder why?!?

It's all good...

2010-04-12T10:03:00.009-05:00

This weekend was busy. Busy, busy, busy.

It all started innocently enough. Our neighbor's son was short handed for a soccer game, and asked if The Boy would be able to help them out.

Sure, but given that he would have a hockey game that morning, and had never played soccer before, we couldn't make any promises. They said that just having an extra kid would be help enough.

The hockey game didn't go as well as we'd hoped. They got down 4 - 1, managed to tie it up, only to lose 5 -4.

Alas, we still had a daughter to get to dance and a soccer game...

They managed to get ahold of an extra jersey and shin guards. He had black shorts and cleats. With a little pep talk from the coach regarding rules, he was ready to go. His only concern was that he didn't know the penalties for soccer.

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Later that night, we had the End of the Year Hockey Banquet. Hamburgers, hot dogs, chips, pop and best of all... Free Skate.

Yes, he's trying to help his little sister and she wants no part of it. She can do it Herself.

After a day of hockey, dance, soccer, and countless hours playing outside, the kids still had energy for free skate. My husband and I were ready for Happy Hour.

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Last night, The Boy figured out something else...

He's big enough to drive the mower.

Getting bigger, they are.

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How did the soccer game go?

They won. The Boy was the leading scorer with six goals.

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Going Up?

2010-04-05T13:20:00.005-05:00

Even though I'm 'home' all day, that does not negate my children's responsibility around the house. Case in point - the stairs. Even though I could probably use the exercise, I'm not their pack mule. As I pick up the accumulated crap around the house, it gets put on the steps. When they go up, they (should) take what's theirs with them. Ideally they'd put it away as well, but, I can't work magic.

Throughout the week, book, laundry, games (and their pieces), their laundry that found the way into mine, and too many other assorted things find their way to the steps. I try and make it easy for them - I try to keep their things together so if they see one thing on a step that is theirs, they know that all the things on that step are theirs.

For the most part, I gently remind them to take what is theirs with them. Every day except Sunday. Sunday night, I usher them up step by step. I ask "Who's is this?" If no one claims it, I pick it up. Every last Lego, barrette, hair band, book, and item of clothing.

What becomes of the things I pick up?

I only had to throw them away once...

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Command Central

2010-03-31T08:55:00.008-05:00

Once the kids come home from school, I spend a great deal of my time here:

On the far side of the island homework is overseen, petty disputes are solved, dinner is started and eventually finished. With the weather steadily improving, the kids are looking to spend more and more time outside. Well, the older kids.

Most afternoons I look out from my post, this is what I see:

Head turned down, all she needs is a steady supply of paper, crayons, scissors and glue.

What, oh what, will that brain come up with next?

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Note to self:

2010-03-30T15:22:00.002-05:00

Rotary cutters are very, very sharp.

Super Glue is an excellent at-home stand in for emergency room Dermabond.

Glad I had recently restocked heavy duty bandaids at home...

Back to normal tomorrow

2010-03-29T23:25:00.002-05:00

Or at least what passes for normal around here.

Gifted with a four day weekend, or what passes for spring break in these parts, we took the kids to visit some friends in Oklahoma. A great time was had by all. It was nice to get out of town, couldn't have asked for better accommodations, and the food and drink (lots of drink!) was wonderful. The kids loved tromping around on our guest's three acres complete with creek.

Tomorrow I'll set about getting laundry done and setting for the calendar for April.

Given we have three dance classes, baseball, softball and now spring hockey as well, I'm sure it will fill up fast. Two of the kids have decided to do projects for the school science fair. Reading club for the boy is done, and my oldest has her last scrapbooking club at school on Wednesday.

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Four days away from home was enough to get me ready to tackle a few more projects before the kids are out for summer: sort through the basement (my husband has the shelves put up), sew curtains for my oldest's room, paint my youngest's room, as well as just keeping up on the day to day stuff.

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The weather is shaping up and the kids are spending more time outside. It's wonderful.

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Finally Friday

2010-03-19T11:02:00.004-05:00

Where

Start?!?

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For the most part, each kit is responsible for cleaning his or her own room. Our usual routine is to tackle them Thursday. The goal is to keep them clean, but... well... you know.

Yesterday the weather was so, so nice. Once the kids got home from school, they bolted outside. I didn't have the heart to pull them inside and clean their rooms.

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I know I'm not the only parent out there that has kids' rooms that look like this. I hope.

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The big 4 - 0 and 1,000

2010-03-17T09:54:00.004-05:00

Hard to believe this is my 1,000 post.

When I started, I had a five year old that had just started Kindergarten, a three year old going to preschool two mornings a week and a just weaned 14 month old.

My how things have changed. Not just this blog in it's original incarnation: Throwing Bananas at Toddlers, Confessions of an Imperfect Parent, but me.

I now have a 4th grade 10 year old, 2nd grade 7 year old, and a 5 year old Kindergartner. We've moved twice. I've fixed countless meals, loads of laundry, scraped knees, and hurt feelings - not to mention all those moving boxes.
Along the way I've grown up a little as well. In finding my own voice, I'm better able to stand up for what I believe without worrying so much what other's think. I'm doing the best I can with the information I have at the time. I am and always will be my children's best advocate. I've finally found a good place within myself, and with that, have been able to shed the pounds that have been plaguing me for years.

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Yesterday I stepped on the scale to find that I've now lost 40 pounds.

Forty.

220 to 179.

Ok... that's really 41.

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My latest favorite for dinner is spaghetti squash. While I'm cooking spaghetti sauce and whole wheat pasta for everyone else, I'm microwaving spaghetti squash for me. Yum!

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Spring Cleaning

2010-03-15T09:56:00.003-05:00

Along with changing the clocks and the smoke alarm batteries, I've started spring cleaning.

Moving furniture and rugs.

Sorting through cabinets.

Dusting the woodwork and cleaning the windows.

Going above, under, left and right of everything.

It's amazing how much crap accumulates in just a few months.

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My intent is to be done by the end of this week. A room or two a day. Yesterday (Sunday) I cleaned the dining room and front entry.

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Two steps forward, 1.8 steps back

2010-03-12T09:46:00.002-06:00

Yesterday left me in a position I haven't been in for a long time: craving macaroni and cheese, mashed potatoes and gravy, and every other comfort food you could think of.

Wednesday night, my husband and I went to the second session of the Big 12 tournament's first round. We skipped dinner and had a few drinks. I had more than a few drinks and ate 'bar food'. Not totally unheard of for me, but unusual given the strict attention to detail of the last three and a half months.

It was also the first time I took my new weight out for a 'test drive'. Yesterday, it was very apparent that my 220 pound body metabolized alcohol differently than my 183 pound one.

After a fretful night's sleep, I got the kids off to school and promptly found a comfy place on the couch. I spent the day eating whatever sounded good.

What didn't sound good? Lean meat or veggies.

What did? Oatmeal with brown sugar. Water. Ritz crackers with peanut butter. Water. A Little Debbie oatmeal cream pie. Water. For lunch, my husband took me out for enchiladas, rice, and refried beans. And water.

By the time the kids came home from school, I could stand up for more than 15 minutes without feeling dizzy. Yay me. Dinner consisted of take-home-tacos and homemade macaroni and cheese.

I repeat: homemade macaroni and cheese. First you make a roux...

I was in bed by 7 pm.

This morning I woke up, knowing I'd have to repent for the last two days. I fired up the Wii and put in Wii Fit. Stepped on the scale.

+1.8 pounds.

Not what I wanted to see, but about what I figured.

The key here is I didn't throw up my hands and wonder, "how did that happen?!?" I didn't curse a bit and go make waffles with whipped cream. I didn't give up.

I know how it happened, and I'm taking responsibility.

That means I made my usual breakfast: two egg omelet. Today's was mushroom and onion. Lunch is a salad with plenty of veggies and bit of ham or turkey. Dinner will be spaghetti squash with spaghetti sauce. I'll be done eating by eight. Tomorrow... lather, rinse, repeat.

This little experience has taught me two things:

I am capable of forgiving myself. Things happen. It's not always what happens, but how you react to it.
I can not drink like I used to. I'm ok with that.

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It might not seem like much...

2010-03-10T11:58:00.005-06:00

I'm fortunate to have several of my grandparents' things that are important to me: one of my grandmother's rings, some of her vintage Fiestaware, and my grandfather's Cross pen to name a few. And while I wouldn't trade them for anything, there is something much less noble that holds a dear place in my heart: The Camp Spatula.

At our last family gathering, breakfast one morning was pancakes, bacon, and eggs. When I asked if I could help, my uncle pulled a well used spatula out of the silverware tub and told me to get to work. This is the same uncle that exclaimed I could feed my family with my shooting skills.
I immediately set to work: keeping the bacon from burning, flipping pancakes and taking orders for how people wanted their eggs cooked. As I held the spatula in my hand, I silently wondered where it got it's start, and how long it had been in service. I noticed the nice balance and heft as I flipped, turned, and tried not to burn. Marvelling at the smooth wood handle, I thought about all the hands that may have used it.

Looking to my uncle, I told him I liked the spatula. What? That?!? That's the spatula we took with us when we went camping. Dad used it to fry fish and hash browns and Mom used it for everything else, he replied. It's nice, I told him, useful.

Breakfast was soon served and the clean up began. We cleaned up by bucket and soap with no running water; the cast iron pans were rubbed with a bit of oil and put away until the next meal. I put the spatula back in the tub it came from and went back to whatever we were doing that day. Probably shooting.

Several months later, my parents came up for a visit bringing loot for the kids and a gift or two for my husband and I. My dad told me he had something for me from my uncle. With a curious glance, I unrolled the paper bag and glanced in.

There it was, the camp spatula. He noticed you liked it and wants you to have it, my dad told me. As I held the smooth wood handle in my hand, I started to think of all the meals I could make with it.

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For what it's worth, spring is coming. Burgers were cooked on the grill Sunday night. I used the camp spatula.

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Thought for the day

2010-03-09T13:57:00.002-06:00

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When you can, get as much sleep as you can, and don't feel guilty about it.
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On another front - I now weigh less than when I got married. Yes. Married. Also, I'm within seven pounds of my high school graduation weight. Yes. High School.

I will say that nothing is as it was. I will never have that 16, 18, or 22 year old body again. Things sag, there are stretch marks and scars, and the weight is redistributed - not always in a good way.

That's ok.

I wouldn't trade my stretch marked tummy and saggy chest for that young body. Rather than see what was, I look at what I have - three wonderful, strong, and amazing children - and the job that my body played in that.

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Before and During

2010-03-03T13:49:00.006-06:00

Last August, my parents threw a luau to celebrate my mom's birthday. I couldn't find anything to wear (hint... nothing fit!) so I made myself a dress. You'd think that taking my measurements and seeing myself in pictures, it would have made a dent. It didn't. The stress of selling our house, moving, resettling the kids, etc - I covered it up with food. Covered. It. Up. During Thanksgiving break, we had family pictures taken - the first with my parents, my sibling and her family, and my family. I was dismayed when I saw the pictures. It took all my willpower not to cry while we were ordering pictures. Right then I made myself a promise. Come Monday, things were going to change.

And change they did. I jumped fully on the South Beach bandwagon. By cutting out processed foods, wheat/grains, alcohol, and as much sugar as I could, the results came rapidly. There was a minor setback with the two weeks between Christmas and New Years, but come January 2nd, I was back on the plan.

Now I don't see what I'm doing so much as South Beach, but reasonable eating. At this time I am keeping as much processed food, wheat/grains, and sugar out my diet as I can. I occasionally have a drink - every other week or so. I eat lean meat, plenty of veggies, a little cheese and occasionally fruit. My lone hold out is Diet Coke. I am not ready to let it go just yet. The best part about this is I am rarely hungry and seeing real results.

So far, I've lost 35 pounds.

I am not yet where I want to be. I'd like to see another 10 - 15 pounds off the scale. It will come in time. Right now I'm rejoicing in the success I have had. And that makes me smile.

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Double secret probation

2010-02-25T11:08:00.003-06:00

Another project in the works. ...

Also, I'm feeling a bit naked as with my weight loss, I can no longer wear my wedding ring, or grandmother's for that matter, without fear of losing them.

I'm wondering if I should have them resized now, or wait until I'm where I want to be. If I wait, I'm tempted to head to Target and pick out a 'cheapie' so I don't get those leering looks. Ha ha.

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Snow day

2010-02-22T14:33:00.008-06:00

Little did I know on the last visit to my parents, the kids would have their own luge hill.

Took a quick picture of the icicles before we started breaking them off.

Though a lot of snow, it's the ice that's unbelievable. Dad spent two days on the roof after the last storm to break up the ice. They've got to have at least six inches of ice leaning on the downspouts.

The kids were more than happy to help break off the icicles.

Yep, I'm 'that mom' - go ahead and stand on the rail - I'll hold you... The pile in front of the railing is ice off the roof. Dad's ladder is stuck in the snow/ice.

The bruise gained from the experience of trying my son's snowboard is finally starting to fade.

Now I just have to wait for the bruise obtained from riding the mechanical bull Saturday to fade...

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Just because you can - Doesn't mean you should.

2010-02-16T14:01:00.004-06:00

Learned a lesson the hard way over the weekend. The kids and I headed North to my parents. Because we were staying though Monday, my husband opted to enjoy some 'quiet time' at home.

Like many parts of the country, the Midwest has been hit with a bit of snow. The kids were looking forward to packing up their snow gear, sleds and snowboards. We spent the better part of a day stomping through snow and breaking rather large icicles off the house.

The we got out the sleds and snowboards.

I learned that just because I am now under the weight limit for my son's snowboard does not mean I should try and ride it.

There is a salad plate sized bruise on my right hip.

Pictures coming of everything but the bruise.

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My husband is gone tonight. That means only one thing.

Before and After pictures.

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In other news. I reached another weight milestone. I'm down thirty pounds.

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Hills and Valleys

2010-02-11T08:52:00.008-06:00

To everything there is a season,
a time for every purpose under the sun.

As I sit here, I know just how lucky I am. It doesn't mean there aren't trying times, though. Leading up to Thanksgiving, I found myself in a fog.

Aching for the life that would never be in Minnesota. Aching for the life that I would have to build here, feeling completely out of place. Knowing I would make my life here, but not really wanting to.

I found myself using food. A lot of food.

There is so much to be thankful for...

My newly minted, wise beyond her years, ten year old. How did I end up with a 10 year old?!?

The day this picture was taken, she wanted her hair straightened. Usually it's a bit of a mess that never really looks brushed, even when it is. The top is reasonably straight, but then underside near the nape of her neck is a nest of curls. She doesn't mind it now, but I'm sure as she grows older it will be a source of consternation.

She's so much more devoted to school than I ever was. She has a book report due February 24th. It was assigned Monday. She's read the book and already made an outline for her report. She's excited about typing it. Excited.

At 10, she still cares what I think and my word holds weight in her world. I know that will end, or at least take a back burner for awhile, but for now... I'm holding it close to my heart.

My son has taken a liking to handwriting - they're learning cursive. He will sit for hours practicing his letters. It is the one way we can get him to practice spelling without much wailing and gnashing of teeth.

He had his last regular season hockey game last night. The coach said he is a bit of a slow starter. He needs to get knocked around a bit, and then he's good to go. Better that than quick out of the gate only to lose it halfway through, perhaps? Finish strong - always finish strong.

There's a big hill behind our across-the-street neighbor perfect for sledding - or snowboarding. Given his three snowboards and willingness to share, he's been a big hit with the neighbor kids this winter.

And this one? My five year old too-smart-for-Kindergarten kid? She thought after Christmas break she got to go to 1st grade. She cried a bit when she found out she didn't, and replied, "But I already know all my letters and even how to read." Hard to argue, but when I said she'd miss her friends, she decided Kindergarten would be fine after all.

Most days after school you can find her coloring or trying to read chapter books. If she's not doing that, she's following me around the house. I'm careful not to stop too fast, or she'll run right into me. While she's coloring, reading, or following me, she's usually talking and talking and talking. We call it 'chirping.'

And me? After Thanksgiving I gave myself a good talking to, put down the food, and decided to concentrate on the what-can-be, not what-could-have-been.

Dare I say it worked a little bit. On my parent's last visit, I asked Mom if we could find some 'before' pictures. Sure enough... There they were in living color. Maybe someday I'll be willing to share.

I still have to talk myself into most of my runs. It helps there isn't as much jiggle as there used to be. There's still more to go.

Attitude is everything.

And this? My birthday present, courtsey of my parents.

What is it? A 40 yard roll of batting. Oh the quilts I can make. Anybody need one?!?

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I haven't laughed so hard...

2010-02-03T14:21:00.002-06:00

Yesterday's facebook thing was to go to urbandictionary.com and search your first name.

I finally got around to it today...

Gretchen:
1. An amazing girl but most have not discovered her yet. She is funny, smart, usually blonde, sexy, loves God and jesus, hangs out with tons of guys and loves to watch scary movies at home with her boyfriend, and enjoys music tremendously, she also is amazingly beautiful!!!!

2. Very hot girl, usually a fine ass. innocent looking, but a total FREAK in the bed.

What is this world coming to...

February already?

2010-02-01T11:50:00.005-06:00

We had a delightful weekend with my parents. They came early enough Friday that Mom and I went out for lunch. Our only commitment was my oldest daughter's dance class at 1 pm on Saturday. Otherwise we put together puzzles, played wii, shot a few games of pool and generally relaxed.

I'm a bit under the weather today, but I'll leave with the news that last week I finished a quilt I started back in February 2008...

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Passing the crazy along.

2010-01-26T08:42:00.006-06:00

Growing up, one of two specific things would happen when we got together with my mom's family: there would be a game (or two) of Scrabble and there would be a puzzle put together. Sometimes both happened. Scrabble involved a dictionary, challenges, and quiet concentration. The puzzle involved at least 1,000 pieces, work late into the night, and quiet concentration.

Scrabble, I'm still not good and can be easily beat by my 10 year old. But puzzles? I love them.

Over winter break, it wasn't unusual to find one, two, or sometimes three puzzles going at once.

The younger two concentrate mainly on 60 - 100 piece puzzles. The nice thing about this is that it is hard to mix them up.

My oldest? She's moved on to 500 piece puzzles. It's on newspaper because we originally started at the kitchen table, but moved to the dining room because it was hard to eat and not mess up the pieces.

Me? I've finally figured out a good way to store a work in progress. I took a big moving box and opened it up. After cutting it in half, I was left with a piece I could fold in half and store under my couch. It's easy to pull out and work on, then put away when we're out of time.

As for passing the crazy along, when we get to a certain point in the puzzle, I am forced to start sorting pieces. And by a certain point I mean when we open the box. As I'm sorting out the edge pieces I'm making piles of likes. Toward the end it gets a little more severe - by color and shape all lined up.

Please tell me I'm not the only one who does this.

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Snow...

2010-01-22T14:35:00.008-06:00

I keep hearing about how unusual this winter is. Well, the snow. My husband says the last time he remembers it snowing the way it did was back in 1989. (Uphill to school both ways...)

My kids don't know much different. Neither do I . So, pending serious sub-zero temps, I send them out anyway. Yes, I know they're wearing sweatshirt. It wasn't that cold.

They called me out to show me something.

Very carefully they'd built a snowball. They wanted me to take a picture standing on it.

At the same time.

If at first you don't succeed...

Try, try again.

I do love their smiling faces.

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Here's a link the cereal dispenser: Double Dry Food Dispenser. Mine is from Target, but it's black. At some point I'd like to move it to the pantry, but the kids like it where it is.

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My eating wasn't great this weekend. It wasn't even good. It's like someone flipped a switch to 'carb load' and I went with it.

Today? Today I'm crawling back on the wagon. Again. If at first you don't succeed...

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2010-01-21T09:14:00.003-06:00

When, exactly, did they grow up so much?
I must say, of all the gifts they received, the cereal dispenser was a huge hit. The love it because, hey - it dispenses cereal. I love it because we only have two kinds of kid cereal going at one time - not the usual dozen boxes with one bowl left.

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Me, on my birthday, with my cake:

The cake itself wasn't bad. The texture was a bit different, but it tasted great. No, I'm not pregnant, it's just the picture that makes me look so. Also, I'm trying to figure out why I photograph so red, I swear I'm not drunk. Finally, I didn't realize my hair was so dark...

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So far this week, my weight loss has stalled a bit. Nothing much, but it used to be enough to get me right off track. I'm working my way through it. Also, I've been making a more concerted effort to exercise, so that may play a part in the short term. Thinking long term, though.

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They say it's your birthday...

2010-01-19T09:43:00.005-06:00

It's my birthday, too!

Whoot! Another year gone. They say everyone has one birthday that's harder than the rest, then it's smooth sailing. Mine is long gone, so I like to look ahead rather than behind.

Rather than New Year's resolutions, I'd like to offer up some Things to do While I'm 36:

1. Continue to lose weight. As of today, I'm down 22 pounds since December 1st. I've really gotten into the South Beach Style of eating. One of my new favorite websites is Mark's Daily Apple. Also, I weigh myself most every day on the Wii fit. I love the way it keeps track for me, and graphs it all out. Looking at it like that makes it easy for me to see how much progress I've made.

2. Continue working toward a 1/2 marathon. Right now I'm slated to run the Oklahoma City 1/2 Marathon on April 25th. Joining me will be my friend Tree and my sister. Two and a half years ago Tree, Anne and I did the Denver half marathon. We said we'd do something every year, but... well... life intervened. My sister? She's just caught the running bug, but you can find her at "The Sissy Jogger Companion." Clever, that girl is...

3. Go on a family vacation. I say this every year, but this year I mean it.

4. Read more. I have gotten back into reading now that we don't have cable. The library is my BFF. They do an excellent job routing books from one branch to the other and emailing when they're waiting. Any suggestions? I'm not looking for anything heavy, just fluff right now.

Finally... Here's the birthday cake I'm making myself:

Low Carb Almond Cake
2 1/2 cups almond flour
1 1/2 cup sugar substitute (Splenda)
2 teaspoons baking powder
1/4 teaspoon salt
7 large eggs
8 ounces cream cheese
1 1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract
1 1/2 teaspoon almond extract

Preheat the oven to 300 F.

Whisk together the almond flour, sugar substitute, baking powder, and salt.

In another bowl, beat the cream cheese until fluffy, add eggs one at a time beating between each addition then whisk in the almond and vanilla.

Add the dry ingredients and stir until combined.

Pour the batter into a well greased (cooking spray) bundt pan.

Bake until slightly browned and a toothpick comes out clean when stuck in the center, about 65-70 minutes. Let cake cool for about 15-20 minutes before removing from pan.

Yield: 12 servings
Prep Time: 0:15
Cook Time 1:10
Carbs: 7g

I pilfered this from another site and messed with it enough to make it my own. Let you know if it's any good tomorrow!

Until then - have a great day!

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Relentless

2010-01-18T11:34:00.003-06:00

Fog. Fog. Fog.

Sunshine... where are you?

Kids are home for MLK day. So far, they've cleaned their rooms and are now in the basement with the music blaring.

Me? I'm working on the pile of laundry that their room cleaning created.

One of these days, I have a ton of pictures to download. Unfortunately, my computer leaves a bit to be desired in the download game.

Ah well. Better than nothing.

2010-01-11T10:24:00.003-06:00

Kids are back at school today. Though reveling in the silence, I miss them a bit. Isn't that how it goes?

Much to accomplish today - this is my month to send out fabrics for a block swap. I was hoping to get it done last week, but the kids home threw a wrench in my plans! The envelopes are addressed. Now to cut and sort the fabric. Hopefully they'll be in the mail tomorrow.

For the most part, the house is back to rights, but again, not much cleaning wise was accomplished with the kids home.

Though I could have done much I needed to do with them home, instead I chose to spend the time with them.

Have a great day!

Friday, finally

2010-01-08T10:49:00.003-06:00

It seems like summer break, but without being able to send the kids outside to play. Well, I do, but not as much. They love playing in the snow and as long as they're dresses appropriately, I'm ok with it. I did keep them in yesterday due to excessive wind.

So far, they've made good use of their Christmas presents, finger painted, played outside, had a sleepover, and maybe even found a bit of time to read.

Me? I'm finally in the swing of having them home and even got a little sewing done. Also, I'm back on the South Beach kick. I managed to keep 8 of the 10 pounds I lost after Christmas off. Better than nothing!

Finally - our new favorite movie is Swiss Family Robinson circa 1960. What could be better - living in a tree house with running water on a tropical island? Oh yea, there are pirates...

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Now what...

2010-01-06T16:32:00.003-06:00

No school again today. The threat of more snow on top of the ice was enough to cancel school.

I just received a text from the school district that they are cancelling classes both Thursday and Friday.

I can never remember missing four days of school in a row.

Weather

2010-01-05T09:43:00.003-06:00

Hmm...

No school today. Inclement weather. Really... You see, it's currently sunny and 5 degrees. No real wind to speak of.

Kids are going crazy, as am I.

My Kindergartner cried this morning. When I asked her why... "I'm missing my friends, Mama."

Me too.

We're wiling away the day playing WII Fit. Maybe after lunch we'll head to the library.

It's supposed to snow 3" - 6" tomorrow night and be 0 degrees on Thursday, and in the single digits Friday.

Does that mean there will be school at all this week?

One can only hope...

All roads lead...

2009-12-29T10:22:00.004-06:00

Starting Christmas Eve and ending sometime late Christmas night, Cow Town received the most snowfall on December 25th since 1897. Or something like that. It was one of those blips the Weatherman gave on the unending Weather station.

Christmas morning was a delightful affair. We spent the morning opening presents, eating baked french toast, and then opening more presents. Shortly after noon, we dress and went to the inlaws to open more presents and eat more. I was able to catch up on some tv, hiding away in the basement while my husband slept on the couch and the kids made the most of the new presents.

Finally, as the kids showed signs of wear, we packed up and loaded the Suburban while horizontal snow flew. For the most part, the roads weren't too bad. Perhaps after three Minnesota winters I have a slightly skewed view.

I should say they weren't too bad until we turned onto our street. My husband, being the funny man he is, put the truck back into 2 wheel drive and tried to make a go of it. Why? To make the kids (and me) squeal. An unending swath of white covered the road, and half of a minivan. The minivan was stuck going uphill in the middle of the street. I kindly requested he return the truck to 4 wheel drive. Sensing my apprehension, he did. Ha. As if. More likely I told him to cut it out and get me home. Laughing, he did.

We ended up cutting a path around a light pole, onto the curb and drove for a bit on the sidewalk. Retuning to the street, we made the last half of the block to our house. Upon arriving home, we noticed the neighbor's car stuck in our driveway. We called him, and he came over apologizing profusely. He'd only meant to deliver some Christmas cheer, when he overcompensated trying to get into our driveway and landed solidly in the drift that should have been our driveway. After attaching a tow strap between his car and our Suburban, my husband quickly pulled him out.

That was enough excitement for me. Though I must admit, I don't know as I've ever been more glad to have a vehicle with 4 wheel drive.

We stayed in Saturday and most of Sunday. The kids, of course, didn't. They have made the most of the snow, only coming in to eat and have me throw their snow pants in the dryer. I taught them the trick of putting plastic bags over their feet before stuffing them in wet boots. In my day, we used bread bags. Now, it's Target plastic sacks that provide a moisture barrier. By mid-day Sunday, the plow had come by. Not that we couldn't have gotten out, it just made more sense to stay off and let the road crews to their work. Well... Most of their work. Sunday we went out for pizza, and on the drive home we encountered this:

This is supposed to be the street too our house. Notice the little lights in the middle of the picture? That's where our house is. Apparently either the road crews couldn't handle it, or the just didn't do it knowing there was another way in. Either way, the kids thought it was pretty funny.Yesterday, we went to inspect it. On the left of the picture is the kids' school. They still haven't cleared it. Not sure what the hold up is.

Ah well. At least there's another way out.

This and that

2009-12-17T11:47:00.005-06:00

The last of the packages are in the mail...

Sweet sleeping bags for American Girl Dolls...

They are so much fun to make. No two are exactly alike - I am not that good with sizing.

The dresses I posted the other day have found good homes. Thank you so much for taking them off my hands.

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Today I was planning to make more cookies. Right now I have gingersnaps and chocolate (that need to be frosted) shortbread. I also made fudge and Anise candy. The kids are in near heaven, but I have had no more that 1/4 of a cookie.

I'm still sticking to South Beach. So far, I've surpassed my expectation. Usually I get a few pounds down, decide it's 'good enough,' and go back on the food binge. Not so this time.

It's a funny thing. Usually this time of year I'm putting just about any food in my mouth multiple times. Not so. Not that it doesn't sound good, but I'm just trying to make it though one day at a time. So far I've been successful.

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The gingersnap cookies are my maternal great grandmother's. Dare I say they made my husband nearly moan? The fudge is my paternal great grandmother's. I can barely keep my oldest out of it. It's what she wants to give her teacher for Christmas. The anise candy is my paternal grandmother's. The chocolate shortbread? Nigella. Right now we are in a 'don't ask don't tell' on how much butter I'm using.

A big part of the holidays to me is not only keeping tradition, but creating new ones.

What are some of your favorite traditions - food or otherwise?

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Busy, Busy...

2009-12-14T11:12:00.008-06:00

It's that time of year. Things are starting to get out of control. I have one too many irons in the fire. Two packages to be mailed off today, a third by no later than Wednesday. And then what I want to do for my family as well.

My machine's been humming...

My crochet hook's been working overtime...

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I have been meaning and meaning to get these on etsy, but haven't made the time. I have three little dresses that need a home. They fit an 18" doll (American Girl).
If you're interested in one (or more!) shoot me an email. swiperbootsdora at gmail dot com They're $10 each.

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Back to work!

For all the talk of eating better and exercising...

2009-12-08T09:44:00.004-06:00

So I didn't make it to the book signing for Ree, The Pioneer Woman. I did however make it to Nigella Lawson's...

If you haven't read/heard/seen her on TV - she is very much a "in moderation, even moderation" type cook. All of the recipes I've tried of hers from How to Be a Domestic Goddess was wonderful.

I am so excited to dig into her new cookbook: Nigella Christmas.

The Big 10

2009-12-04T16:05:00.005-06:00

Yesterday, I shared my dismay at what the scale told me.

I couldn't help but think about it almost all weekend. It started when I had to buy a XXL shirt for pictures. Then again when I put it on and it fit. And yet again after we had family pictures taken and I barely recognized myself.

Thing is, I'm a glass half full type girl. I can find the bright side of nearly anything. Until Saturday morning when I tried zipping up my second pair of jeans I'd brought for Thanksgiving and couldn't (traitors). Of the two pair that I've been able to wear for the last year, I was down to one.

For the most part my Standard Operating Weight (or SOW) is between 205 and 210. Big numbers, I know. But those that know me know I'm pretty much a big boned Amazon. Ok, maybe not so big boned, but I am tall. Right now my SOW is easy to maintain: minimal exercise and eat nearly whatever I want.

A 'healthy' weight for me is between 150 and 175.

Shit, I weighted 175 in high school.

Needless to say, more exercise and eating only a tad less made that possible. Oh yea and I was 18 and not 35.

Back to the issue at hand. So Saturday morning I glumly put my other jeans (the ones that still zipped) on. My head started spinning as I sat down to a cinnamon roll, little smokies, and a scrambled egg (or two) for breakfast.

How much heavier could I be? I continued to eat like it was a holiday until my last great meal before hitting the road on Sunday afternoon. It's not like I wanted to make a change while my mom was cooking. But the whole time I was planning what would come Monday morning. The only thing that's worked for me (when I did it) - South Beach Diet.

I hit the ground running Monday morning. Literally. After the kids went school I managed a quick jog - jiggling all the way. First though, I weighed myself and was dismayed to see the scale settle on 215. I've managed phase one since Monday morning and had three (quick) jogs.

I weighed myself again this morning (Friday) and was excited to see a more respectable 205. That's 10 pounds. The only way I could have done better was if I was on The Biggest Loser. Now, I know some of that is water weight. I'm ok with that, just don't rain on my parade.

There is a difference in how my jeans fit. I haven't tried back on the traitors, but my other pair is fitting much better. The pockets don't bulge and I'm down two notches on my belt.

Right now, I know that unless I plan to eat like this forever, the weight will slowly (or not so slowly) creep back. I'd like to say that after the two week induction phase I'll move on to phase two and get to my goal weight. By then, I'll be able to better manage my eating and exercising. I'd like to get my SOW to 180 - 185. I'd really like for all that to happen.

My weight will always be an issue for me. It's not like I'm trying to insulate myself, or that I don't know how much or what I'm eating and where it will lead. I know it. I just really, really like food. Quantity, quality - both. I love food.

Right now, though, I'm relishing this 10 pounds and that my jeans fit better. It's given me a new lease on eating better and exercising a bit more. I'm getting back to finding that girl I knew once upon a time...

Time flies

2009-12-03T09:45:00.003-06:00

One of the main reasons I haven't hit publish lately is that I can't think of much to say.

We spent a wonderful five days at my parents over Thanksgiving.

We spent plenty of time in the hot tub
--Makes me want one of my own

Ice skating
--My legs still aren't back to normal

Had family pictures taken - for the first time with my parents, my sister and her kids, and my family.
--More on that later

Went to see my college alma mater's volleyball game
--They're nationally ranked and they were amazing

Plus plenty of other outside activity
--Both gun and bow.

I really to have so much to be thankful for. My kids are healthy and well behaved (for the most part). They love their cousins and play so well with them, even though they're a bit younger. They handled the 3 1/2 hour car ride like champs and well... they're just all around great kids. My husband of thirteen years... we have fit into a pattern and groove that I didn't think was possible.

But...

There's always a but...

Or in my case, as big ol butt.

Once we got home from my parents, I realized that I was down to one pair of jeans that fit.

Problem was I gained seven pounds in five days.

Seven.

Something must be done, and it does not involve buying new pants.

Saturday Night - Suburb Style

2009-11-21T17:34:00.003-06:00

My kindergartner has taken to making puppets out of paper lunch sacks.

We have a King, a Queen, and their chef. Each one takes at least an hour. So between that and practicing her tap dancing, she keeps pretty busy.

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Day 14 with no faucet :
I've gone from one pitcher to a pitcher and two gallon jugs. What's scary is noticing how much water gets used. While filling the 9x13 dish currently soaking in the sink, all I could think was, I'm going to have to refill a jug for this.

Sad, but true.

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Friday, finally

2009-11-20T15:46:00.003-06:00

I brought my plant in a couple weeks ago. Now, they're sitting on folded sheets in my entry way. I'm looking for a way to protect my hardwood floor that's slightly prettier. There aren't any saucers out there that I'm too fond of.
Thoughts?

All Better

2009-11-19T12:45:00.001-06:00

My poor ruffled feathers have been smoothed. Field trip and a picnic lunch with a Kindergartner. What would be better?

2009-11-19T08:02:00.002-06:00

Is 8 am too early to ask for a re-do on the day?

Some woman thought I bumped into her car in the school parking lot. I didn't.

She yelled at me. And later apologized.

But it was a crappy way to start the day.

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Today though? Today is the kindergartner's field trip. She has been talking about it for the last two weeks. Every day.

The camera battery is charged. I am pumping myself up, after all they could only take three parents and my name was drawn out of the proverbial hat.

Now, to let some of her unabashed enthusiasm rub off on me.

Take some time

2009-11-11T21:04:00.005-06:00

I read somewhere that as adults we don't lose track of time often enough.

Remember being a kid and completely losing track of time? It might be playing outside, Legos, Barbies, reading a good book... Doesn't really matter, but the fact of it is that we lost track of time. We enjoyed ourselves.

As adults, we tend to be so plugged in to 'gotta do' that we forget what we like and want to do. This last week I've been indulging myself a bit. I tend to lose track of time when I make these:
Dresses for American Girl Dolls. Silly. But fun.

Sweet little buttons.

Carefully hand sewn snaps. Maybe a bit of ribbon.

I'm debating putting a few of these on etsy to see if they sell. Also, the school is having a craft fair, but I'm not sure I could get enough done to warrant a booth.

Today I'll be sorting through my fabric to see what others I can make. Maybe I'll fit in a bit of cleaning... Maybe...

Lucky 13

2009-11-09T19:08:00.002-06:00

While dining at the neighborhood pizza place surrounded by our brood, I asked my husband:

If anyone had told you thirteen years ago we'd be sitting here, would you have believed them?
He replied he be hard pressed to.
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Happy Anniversay, Love. I just keeps getting better.

Thirteen down, a lifetime to go.

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Marriage words of wisdom: compassion, compromise, caring, and compliments.

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Room fit for a boy

2009-11-08T21:10:00.007-06:00

When we decided to buy this house, we thought the bedroom situation out. I had it all planned out in my head.

Unfortunately, the boy did not agree. Upon inspecting the upstairs, he claimed the loft above the garage.

To get to his room he has to go through either the guest room or his sister's room and the bathroom. He doesn't seem to mind.

He's built a fort by his window seat more than once. That and it has a storage bin under the second section. That's for storing the blankets.

There's also this fantastic built in for his treasures. And his laundry. No closet though. Not much of a problem as how many hanging clothes does one seven year old boy need? He uses the guest closet.

I think he looks pretty happy.

Pioneer Girl

2009-11-07T22:00:00.004-06:00

Though no comparison to the pioneers, I feel like one without running water at my kitchen sink. The part won't arrive for 4 to 10 days, so until then I'm bringing water in by the pitcher from the bathroom. We looked for a 'cheap' replacement faucet until the part arrives, but I can haul water for $39.95 + tax. That and the bathroom is 12, maybe 15 steps from the kitchen. So I guess it's a good think I don't have to walk down to the creek because the well ran dry.

Fortunately, my dishwasher still works. There would be mutiny if it didn't. Heh.

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Something fun for today: an American Girl dress - made by me!

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Early hockey tomorrow - out of state game starts at 7:50. Must get four adults and three kids + hockey gear out of the house by 6:45. Oy.

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2009-11-06T21:26:00.004-06:00

My parents are here for the weekend. Not sure what we're going to do, but it's good to have them here.

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Managed a 60 minute walk today. The weather has been absolutely wonderful - mid 70's.

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Thursday

2009-11-05T20:50:00.003-06:00

My daughter's shoes arrived today at noon. Considering I ordered them CST at 7 pm, I am amazed. Not only that, but they fit and she loves them.

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I'm finding it hard to think of anything to share today - just the usual. I did however get an order of crocheted dishcloths, American Girl sleeping bags, and American Girl clothes. Fortunately, she knows how I operate - let me know early. FWIW - it's still early if you'd like to order something...

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Tomorrow I'm expecting a package. I can't wait to share it with you all.

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It must be a girl thing

2009-11-04T19:34:00.002-06:00

Just got done shoe shopping with my oldest. I think I may have my first grey hair. After three stores, and plenty of "meh" later, we came home.

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I will say my oldest has had plenty of experience in dressing herself. Being the oldest of three kids in four years, something had to give. By the age of 2, she was not only dressing herself, but picking out her own clothes.

For the most part, as long as it was seasonally appropriate and didn't look horrible... Hey, the job was done and I didn't have to do it.

Now?

Now she has an opinion. My only issue is she's apologetic about it. She kept telling me she was sorry she couldn't find anything she liked. I want her to like them (within reason) - and want to wear them.

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Zappos.com to the rescue. Not only did we find what she was looking for in her size, but customer service was terribly helpful when I made an error in ordering.

She's looking forward to getting them. I'm looking forward to relegating her old ones to the garage...

Snippets

2009-11-03T22:06:00.002-06:00

Not much today - I sewed, walked, grocery shopped, had lunch with my husband, and cleaned. Pretty typical day.

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My girls are in dance. It's amazing how natural it comes to both of them. Not me. Oh no. Two left feet.

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After having my laptop for two years, I finally managed to download pictures (versus the big monster in the basement). Go me.

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We decided to draw names for Christmas this year. If you could have one thing for $50, what would it be? $100?

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Not just post every day...

2009-11-02T14:23:00.005-06:00

I've set myself up with a couple challenges this month.

1. I'm going to walk/jog/run every day and blog about it. This month I just plan to keep track of my minutes. There won't be any pictures, because really... Who wants to see that?!?

2. I'm going to sew every day and post a picture of what I've done. Right now I'm working on a Double Wedding Ring quilt. I've really enjoyed making this, and look forward to doing pieced arcs next time versus solid ones. I really like how this one is coming together. I haven't decided on backing/binding yet, but I have a feeling once I see it all put together, something will come to me.

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Still trying to recover from Saturday night. We had a good time.

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All vamped up

2009-11-01T10:53:00.004-06:00

So the little white dress didn't quite work out. I couldn't get the halter snug enough to keep the girls contained, so I went with my next option...

I had three separate people stop me and want my picture. I have (hopefully) better pictures on my camera (this was from my phone). Quite frankly I'm a bit worn out to even walk to the basement and download the pictures. With the time change and all, the bars stayed open an hour later. Oy.

Hope all the little ghouls and goblins had fun last night.

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Taking wagers

2009-10-30T08:34:00.004-05:00

Halloween is tomorrow. I need a costume. Tomorrow.

What do you think my odds are given a sewing machine and a white sheet so I can turn this:
Into this:

Any wagers?

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UPDATE: Apparently sheets are very, very thin. So unless I want to display the good through something the weight of a tissue, I'd better start thinking of Plan B.

2009-10-29T09:29:00.007-05:00

I have the best kids. No... Really.

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Last night were parent/teacher conferences. All of the teachers said the child of mine in her class was a joy. They listened, followed directions, knew when to talk and knew when to be quiet, and most of all worked diligently when required. The only issue is The Boy's reading, though we've known that and are working with him. Even with that the teacher said how great it was to work with parents that really cared. I couldn't believe it. Who doesn't care if their child succeeds? Isn't school really a partnership between the teacher and the parents? I digress... I really couldn't be prouder of them. Until this morning.

There are conferences continuing today, so the kids don't have school. Usually that means they get to stay up a bit later knowing they'll sleep in. And for the most part they do. This morning they were up by eight. I heard them rustling around and turning on the TV. This does not bother me as long as they shut my bedroom door.

Around 8:15, a small voice asked me, "Are you done with these?" holding up a package of black pipe cleaners. With one eye open I croaked, "Yes and you can use them." I fell blissfully back to sleep, only hearing occasional chirps from my charges.

I woke at 9:14, the kids keeping themselves delightfully busy with a package of 25 pipe cleaners. No fussing, no bickering, and they'd put their cereal bowls by the sink. I'm not quite sure what more I could ask for.

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Lest this post get to wordy and bragging...

Just because I stay home with the kids in school doesn't mean the dishes are always done.

Or the counters are always cleared off.
Or the family room is ready to receive guests. It serves an excellent place to baste a quilt.

I'm just doing the best I can, and knowing I have great kids goes a long way toward that.

Monday, Monday

2009-10-26T11:40:00.003-05:00

There are a few things rattling around in my head that I just can't quite shake.

-Friday I went to a quilting class on double wedding ring quilts. I bought the acrylic templates. Now I just need to settle on the fabric for my 'test' quilt - meaning it will be lap/throw sized versus bed sized.

-Saturday and Sunday I sorted my fabric. Nothing terribly exciting, as I'm only half way done. I did however find a couple of half started projects that I'm looking to finish. I may offer these as a giveaway at a later date.

-An event Saturday night (early Sunday morning) as left me shaking my head and wondering what is happening to our friend's marriages. Love, honor and cherish have been replaced with bitch, complain, and bicker.

-Since we moved a little over three months ago, we've had two displaced husbands stay at our house. One night only, then I strip the bed and kick them out (with a hug, of course). I have my own marriage to look out for.

-Early this year I started a Dear Jane quilt. Needless to say it's been put away for awhile. I started using quilt quality fabric with muslin for the background. After the quilt expo last weekend, I'm wondering if I shouldn't use something a little better than muslin for the background.

Here are my possibilities:
a) use what I have for another project - wall hanging, pillow, something that won't get a lot of use - and start over with the better background fabric.
b) pick up where I left off, leaving my decision (re-make or just leave) of what to do until later.
c) one by one, take the blocks apart and remake them with other fabric for the backing.

Initially, I chose muslin because it was so much less expensive then other fabric. Now, I'm regretting my choice, as I really want this to be something that lasts a long time. What would you do?

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Slow going

2009-10-21T10:48:00.002-05:00

Costumes must be done by tomorrow, as the class parties are Friday.

Next year, I'll just buy them.

Yea... Right...

2009-10-20T09:50:00.004-05:00

Thankfully, the kids are back to school today. Having them home most of last week, and with a teacher inservice Monday, gave me plenty of quality (and quantity) time.

Yesterday we managed to get supplies for Halloween Costumes. That means today I'm making a mummy, a vampire, and a witch.

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As you may have noticed, I changed the look around here just a bit. I started this blog four years ago with a one, three, and five year old under the name "Throwing Bananas at Toddlers." Two years ago I changed the name to "Bananas and Toddlers."

Today? I have no toddlers. They're all in school. I guess that makes me a housewife. No worries, I can keep myself busy:

My latest quilt: I Miss Mondays

I'm back here now as well: Run, Gretchen, Run.

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Double Booked

2009-10-20T00:15:00.003-05:00

It's quarter past twelve in the morning and I can't sleep.

Tonight I realized I double booked Friday afternoon.

Friday afternoon the kids are having the Halloween parade and parties at school at 2:15.

Friday afternoon I'm supposed to be at my quilting class at 2:30.

There is no way I can do both.

I have missed parties before due to having a toddler or illness or something else I had to do. I have never missed a party because there was something I wanted to do. I was so so so excited about this class. Now, will I attend it with a shadow - thinking I should be there for my kids? Or will I attend knowing full well there is so much going on I doubt they will even miss me?

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2009-10-16T08:43:00.005-05:00

If I think about it too hard, I'm going to have a stroke.

This is the head shot I took to Paris in 1989:

This is my headshot from Tuesday:
Where, oh where does the time go?

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On the up side, all kids are in school today! Whoot!

24 fever free hours

2009-10-15T12:35:00.004-05:00

The ticket to the kids going back to school is 24 fever free hours.

Meaning, two of them are spending the day driving my slightly crazy as they are feeling much better. The third is back at school.

That means tomorrow may be my first day this week with all three kids at school. Go Team!

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I have been working furiously on my sister's and youngest niece's birthday presents. So much so my shoulders ache at the end of the day. Wish I could show you pictures, but then it wouldn't be a surprise.

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I really can't complain about the kids. Right now they're working on the homework I picked up yesterday.

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In My Defense*

2009-10-14T09:12:00.008-05:00

Your honor, I'd like to submit these into evidence of why I haven't yet returned to the workforce.

Exhibit A:
Exhibit A is being the most difficult as of yet. She's complaining of being hungry but not knowing what she wants, excessive crying both while in bed and standing next to me, complaining of a mysterious substance on the roof of her mouth that can not be seen, and coughing and gagging while taking the medicine that will make her feel better.

Exhibit B:

This exhibit, while generally quite agreeable, did manage to find me at 11:30 pm and proceeded to want to lay right next to me all night even though he was running a fever thereby making me sweat. He also managed to keep either his knees or feet, or both, on my back most of the night. While not knowingly or meaning to try and push me out of bed, it was very annoying.

Yes, Your Honor, both Exhibit A and B are in my bed. Yes, those are the sheets and blankets I washed yesterday because I thought they were "better."

Exhibit C:

Exhibit C is home today because she was sent home from school yesterday with a fever. Though happily playing with her American Girl dolls, eating peanut butter crackers, and drinking plenty of fluids - she is still a bit punky. That and she frequently forgets to "cover her cough" and likes to cough in my face and on my food.

I rest my case.

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On the up side, yesterday was such a good hair day I didn't want it to end.

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*I really don't feel the need to defend myself. I just like to think I'm funny.

Having taken a three month hiatus...

2009-10-13T09:34:00.006-05:00

I realize that my life isn't very interesting.

Really, who wants to hear about my sick kids, the fact that I'm home alone all day, I just moved into an amazing house, or my latest project? Sometimes I bore myself.

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The two kids that were home sick yesterday are back in school, the other one is home, though. During a run to CVS for Tylenol, Motrin and cough medicine I realized I am back in civilization - you can by liquor and wine at the drug store. Unlike MN where anything stronger than 3.2 beer requires a trip to the liquor store, I love the fact that I can pick up a bottle of wine (or vodka) along with your cough medicine. I didn't... This time...

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Yesterday I got quite a bit done on my sister's birthday present. I was planning some more work last night after the kids were in bed, but given the crap that's going around our house I went to bed at 8:30. As soon as I hit publish, I'll be back in the sweatshop, I mean basement... You don't turn 29 every day - right Sis?

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Monday, Monday...

2009-10-12T12:43:00.003-05:00

Two kids are home sick today.

I signed myself up for a class at the upcoming sewing and quilt expo next weekend. It's about Double Wedding Ring Quilts and the like. I'm pretty excited about it.

The temperature has dipped, but not so much as in MN - talked to one of my friends back there and she's reporting two inches of snow. I guess Cow Town does have it's benefits.

My dear sister's birthday is this weekend. Must get cracking on that one. Off to the sewing room...

Finally.

2009-10-07T10:08:00.009-05:00

A few pictures of the house:

Kitchen.

Kitchen, table, and deck.

Dining room. Yes, I sewed the toile curtains. Lined them too.

More dining room. The black and white pictures are ones my cousin took while we were at my Grandparent's old farm. The green was not intentional, I was going for a moss green, and ended up with a Kelly green. The longer it's up there, the more I like it. You can see the half bath through the door.

The view out my front door. Sunday they were moving hay bales.

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More to come later. Having been without internet for nearing three months, I have a bit of catching up to do.

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Also, I started another blog to keep track of my sewing projects: I Miss Mondays. Not much is up there. Yet.

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New Digs

2009-09-03T07:12:00.003-05:00

Still waiting for internet.

Still waiting for TV.

Nice to be unconnected for awhile...

2009-08-13T07:57:00.003-05:00

Not much to report today...

My brain's a bit muddled this morning.

Outdoor concerts are fun.

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Watched the meteor shower some last night.

Country living does have its advantages.

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Sewing machine is out.

Finally - window coverings!

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Friday's just around the corner.

2009-08-12T07:47:00.002-05:00

It seems like so many things are out of my control right now.

The kids start school Monday. Though I'm ready for them to have the opportunity to make new friends and get in a bit better routine, I can't help but worry.

We still don't have internet at home.

Or TV. We have some tv, but not the bevy of channels we're used to.

The house is coming together. I'm down to asking, "Where did I put that" once a day versus once an hour.

Our best couple friends. She told him on Saturday that she wanted a divorce. My husband asked me what our stance was on this. I told him we are Switzerland. We don't pick favorites, we don't kick one to the curb. We try and support both of them best we can.

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This weekend my parents are throwing a luau. Complete with freshly butchered pig (Friday) cooked in a pit underground (Saturday). Does knowing someone that can provide a pig pretty much on demand mean you're a redneck, or just well connected?

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2009-07-31T07:54:00.002-05:00

If you only had 30 minutes of 'free' internet time a day - how would you spend it?

News? Blogs? Facebook? Email?

Pictures will have to wait...

2009-07-30T07:41:00.002-05:00

As of right now, we're having trouble getting internet at the new place. Apparently my desire to live a rural life has it's disadvantages. That and the bridge is out so we have an even more scenic drive home.

Things are good. Not nearly as weird as I thought they'd be. I think it has a lot to do with the fact that we're regular visitors here. It's not like when we moved to Minnesota and didn't know anyone. Moving to a community and having a few friends make things much, much easier. That and I know where the local Joann's and independent quilt store are.

Seeing as the basement's unfinished, I can pretty much claim the whole thing as my sewing/craft room - right?!?

The kids are adjusting better than I thought. School starts August 17th. Very early for us - they're used to starting after Labor Day. I will say that having only two weeks until school starts is pretty nice this time - they'll be able to make new friends sooner. They're spending this week with my parents. Tuesday they cut down a tree, went on Jeep rides, and had a bonfire. Wednesday they went rock climbing and played with their cousins. Who knows what's in store today and tomorrow!

As for me? Last night my husband and I used the time without kids to go sit on O'Doud's patio and listen to some great live music. Today I'm going to work really hard on getting my sewing room set up.

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2009-07-23T09:17:00.000-05:00

We made it. We've got the main boxes unloaded. Still no landline phone, internet, or cable tv. It's amazing what you can do with a mobile phone.

2009-07-15T22:19:00.003-05:00

It's been a hell of a week and it's only Wednesday.

Today the movers came and packed up the contents of the house.

It's strange to see your stuff turned into one semi load.

And it was a full load.

I took a few pictures of the process, but I'm using my parents' computer and I have no way to down load them.

The unload starts tomorrow.

As of right now, we have no internet at the new place.

Once we do, though. Better watch out.

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All this packing has me wondering...

2009-07-13T07:32:00.004-05:00

-Just how much stuff does one person need? No, not just one - Five.

-If I were to be traveling by covered wagon, what would I take?

-Will I be ready Wednesday when the movers come?

-Where will all this go in the new house?

-How long will it take to unpack?

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My nerves are getting the better of me. I was up packing at 5:30 this morning.

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Saturday

2009-07-11T08:38:00.003-05:00

So we closed on the house on Wednesday. Having had to be pulled from the mover's schedule once, I didn't want to repeat that. Sometime Wednesday afternoon, I called the mover and asked when he thought we might be able to get back on the schedule. Having worked with plenty of neurotic housewives, he was up for the task.

"Would later next week work?"

NEXT week? You mean like a week from Wednesday?

Yes.

So here I sit, getting ready to start my second full day of packing. Yesterday it was all I could do to get half of my craft room done.

Needless to say, I'll be even more absent than I've been.

However, even with a new house, I look forward to sharing my Before and Afters.

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The neighbors have set up a going away party for us tonight. I'm aiming not to drink too much as I can't lose a day to a hangover.

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Have a great weekend.

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A picture is worth...

2009-07-08T20:29:00.003-05:00

Keys to the new house.

More pictures to follow. Today has been an absolute whirlwind. If you'd asked me Monday if we would close on the house (of my dreams), I would have said no.

Sew Connected 3

2009-06-30T09:43:00.005-05:00

Earlier in the year, I joined a block swap. Having never done one before, I was a bit nervous. I mean, what if they didn't like my work? What if it wasn't good enough?

Every month, one or two people send out fabric with instructions. Some are vague: have fun with the fabric. Some are much more specific. July's quilter wants to make a string quilt.

After making the four squares, I just couldn't decide how to put the fabric together.

Exhibit A:

Exhibit B: My parents are visiting. My dad thinks he's funny. He really is, just not at midnight when I'm trying to take pictures with the camera on my phone because I can't find my other one.

Ok. Exhibit B:
Finally: Exhibit C.

After putting it all together, this is the one I liked the best.

It's been really fun and pushing me outside of my quilt comfort zone. Can't wait for my month!

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Zig Zag

2009-06-29T17:38:00.004-05:00

Oh, you wily triangles... I do love how you come together.

I made this lap quilt for my back yard neighbor. As one of the few full-time stay at home moms in the neighborhoo, I leaned on her quite a lot when we first moved here. Yesterday she called to see if I would like to see some fabric she was looking to get rid of. What I found was a box of wonderful purples.

At some point I'd like to make The Todder a twin size quilt like this.

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Sunday Night

2009-06-28T22:53:00.002-05:00

Of all the things I should be working on tonight... This isn't one of them.

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47"

2009-06-26T08:27:00.005-05:00

Yesterday afternoon my husband got thinking... It's when a while since we've had a family fun night. A quick brainstorm (me) and we decided on Nickelodeon Universe - the theme park inside the Mall of America. It used to be Camp Snoopy.

Our main reason? After 5 pm, the unlimited wristband ticket price drops from $29 to $17.

Five tickets later we were off...

Especially The Toddler. She's four, and 47" - the minimum height for most of the rides. To ride without a chaperone. Alone. There wasn't a ride she didn't like. Even the roller coaster that spun circles while on the track - she went FOUR times.

For the most part, we stuck together as a family.

Until the end, and my husband and I couldn't take another Log Ride. So we sent the kids. More than once.

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2009-06-25T12:11:00.003-05:00

With the kids home for the summer, and my husband home since February 12th, it feels like every day is Saturday.

No reason to get up too early, no reason to worry too much about bedtime... This morning I slept until 9:30, and my youngest until 9:45.

I know it will come to an end soon enough, but I'm just enjoying the time right now.

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Friday afternoon I'm hosting an informal happy hour for the neighborhood ladies. I figure we should make good use of the patio while we have it.

Anyone have any favorite drink or appetizer recipes?

I was thinking sangria... and guacamole. But I'm open to suggestions...

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Take two Twinkies and call me in the morning

2009-06-24T22:24:00.003-05:00

Over the weekend at my parents', I just couldn't shake the feeling.

You know... That something is wrong. It started the Wednesday prior, a nagging ache that just wouldn't go away. We drove back from Cow Town, my bladder aching all the way. I shook it off with a gallon of cranberry juice and plenty of water. Saturday we headed back out of town to visit my parents.

By Sunday though, it would not be ignored. My entire body ached.

I ended up in Urgent Care. A quick sample later diagnosed a UTI.

Seems simple enough, but it's really knocked me out for a couple days. Monday we headed home and off to The Boy's baseball game. Tuesday I thought I felt better, but by mid-afternoon I was ready to call it a day.

And in a fashion, I did... I dug out the hidden Twinkie package from the double-secret-probation hiding spot, gobbled them down and headed to bed. There is something to be said for having my husband home.

Three hours later I finally woke up, finally feeling better.

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A short history, or Happy Father's Day

2009-06-20T12:05:00.011-05:00

It started simply enough...

We'd have a baby. And we did. Soon enough another followed.

And we were happy with our family of four.

Not that it didn't have its moments, but we were content.

I checked the date on the picture below. It's as thin as I'd been since our wedding.

Which means only one thing. Nine months later...

And thus, we became our family of five.

Which brings me to my point...

Happy Father's Day ... They (and you) are all I've ever wanted, and more.

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